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My mum passed at 5:46 AM on 30 July 2009 in the hospital. I was with her, so she wasn't alone, at least.
...Am 'comfortably numb', as my aunt describes it, and in the midst of clearing out her home. Needless to say I probably won't be updating for a while.
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I...well, thank you. You wouldn't think the support from near-anonymous people would mean anything, but it honestly does, and even though I'm feeling awkward as I type, I also feel blessed and honored and generally wooby on you guys.
...Am 'comfortably numb', as my aunt describes it, and in the midst of clearing out her home. Needless to say I probably won't be updating for a while.
EDIT:
I...well, thank you. You wouldn't think the support from near-anonymous people would mean anything, but it honestly does, and even though I'm feeling awkward as I type, I also feel blessed and honored and generally wooby on you guys.
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Date: 2009-08-03 07:00 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2009-08-03 08:36 am (UTC)Take care of yourself...You may be numb now, but it's going to hit like a ton of bricks later. Even when it's an expected thing, it still feels like one of the pillars of the world have gone out from under everything. There are going to be times when you feel perfectly normal, and then something will remind you, and it'll come crashing down.
If you need to talk, or just rant, drop me a pm.
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Date: 2009-08-03 11:49 am (UTC)~Leaf~
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Date: 2009-08-03 02:38 pm (UTC)Don't rush it. We'll be here when you get back.
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Date: 2009-08-03 03:37 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-03 03:44 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2009-08-03 08:04 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-03 08:13 pm (UTC)*gives you the tightest hugs of ever*
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Date: 2009-08-03 10:40 pm (UTC)*hugs*
Take all the time you need, and know that no matter what she's still with you, okay?
*hugs again*
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Date: 2009-08-04 02:40 am (UTC)take as much time as you need and dont worry about crying at the drop of a hat, its healthier to let it all out now than to keep it bottled up inside...
*sends you warm feelings and supporting thoughts*
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Date: 2009-08-04 09:51 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-05 12:00 pm (UTC)Take all the time you need. We'll be here when you're back
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Date: 2009-08-05 07:32 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-08-07 01:49 am (UTC)If you don't feel like writing, then don't. Take a break, and when you have the time and inspiration we'll be right here waiting patiently for updates. Keep busy with other things and take comfort in friends and family.
Although I don't know you or your mother personally, she has my thanks for helping to create a person as imaginative and talented as you.
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Date: 2009-08-10 08:19 am (UTC)Stay strong - we all love you, we're thinking of you, and if you ever need to talk, day or night, just message.
*hugs again*
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Date: 2009-08-11 03:11 pm (UTC)